The power of positive self talk

The power of positive self talk

Today we are looking forward to welcoming, lovely ladies, to our Women’s Tea and Talk session at 1 PM.

As part of our women’s group, this gathering is a cherished opportunity for us to come together, connect, socialise, and most importantly, support each other’s wellbeing.

Todays topic holds immense power to shape our lives: positive self-talk.

So as we sip on our tea and engage in uplifting conversation, we will explore how the words we speak to ourselves profoundly impact our sense of self-worth, resilience, and overall happiness.

Here is a little overview on what we are chatting about in todays tea and talk.

Unlocking the Power of Self-Talk: A Journey to Inner Strength

Did you know that our inner dialogue holds the key to unlocking your true potential, it shapes our lives, behaviors, and ultimately, our happiness.

Let me share my personal motivation for discussing this topic, I’ve battled my own inner critic, a relentless voice that once held me back from living my best life. Through the power of positive self-talk, I’ve overcome obstacles, embraced change, and found profound joy and fulfillment.

Why Self-Talk Matters

The words we speak to ourselves carry immense weight. They can either uplift us to great heights or keep us tethered to limitations. Understanding why self-talk matters is the first step toward harnessing its transformative power.

Embracing Positive Self-Talk

Imagine speaking to yourself with the same kindness and compassion you extend to a dear friend. That’s the essence of positive self-talk. It’s about nurturing a supportive inner voice that encourages, uplifts, and affirms your worth.

My Own Journey with Positive Self-Talk

Through embracing positive self-talk, I’ve witnessed profound transformations in my life. I’ve embraced a healthier lifestyle, nurtured fulfilling relationships, and confronted and dismantled limiting beliefs that once held me back.

Understanding Unhelpful Self-Talk

We often find ourselves trapped in patterns of unhelpful self-talk, perpetuating beliefs that undermine our self-worth. But why are we so mean to ourselves? It’s crucial to recognize that these beliefs often stem from past experiences and subconscious conditioning.

Navigating the Inner Landscape

Our brains play a significant role in shaping our self-talk patterns. Understanding the neuroscience behind our inner dialogue empowers us to reframe negative thoughts and cultivate a more positive mindset.

We often find ourselves fixating on negative thoughts due to a phenomenon known as the “negativity bias.” This bias is ingrained within the very structure of our brains, making us more sensitive to unpleasant or negative news.

Essentially, our brains are wired to give greater weight to negative stimuli, as they tend to have a more significant impact on our neural processing.

The negativity bias operates at the earliest stages of our brain’s information processing, highlighting its deeply ingrained nature. This means that even subtle negative cues can capture our attention and linger in our thoughts longer than positive ones.

So, why do we focus on negative thoughts?

Simply put, nastiness makes a bigger impact on our brains. Our innate sensitivity to negative stimuli, driven by the negativity bias, often leads us to dwell on negative thoughts, even when positive ones are present. Understanding this aspect of our brain’s functioning can help us recognize and counteract the tendency to fixate on negativity, ultimately promoting a more balanced and positive mindset.

Making Your Inner Voice Work for You

Transforming your inner dialogue begins with awareness. By challenging negative thoughts and replacing them with more realistic and compassionate alternatives, we can shift our perspective and reclaim our inner power.

Practical Techniques for Positive Change

From creating imaginary allies to practicing gratitude and reframing negative self-talk, there are various techniques we can employ to cultivate a more empowering inner dialogue.

The Power of Self-Transcendence

Acts of kindness and selflessness not only boost our self-esteem but also provide a sense of purpose and fulfillment. By shifting our focus outward, we can elevate our sense of worth and contribution to the world.

Embracing Your Strength and Worth

As we journey through this process of self-discovery and empowerment, remember that you are strong, resilient, and worthy of love and success. Embrace the power of positive self-talk, and watch as it transforms your life from within.


So!… Embrace Your Inner Power

In conclusion, the power of self-talk cannot be understated. It’s not just about what we say to ourselves; it’s about how we choose to shape our reality through our inner dialogue. By embracing positivity, compassion, and self-transcendence, we can unlock our inner strength and live a life filled with purpose, joy, and fulfillment. So, are you ready to embark on this transformative journey? The power lies within you.

Need some help with your inner dialogue? You can book a time to talk with Amanda Joy at our CREST office or online using the link: